Are you ever feeling
glum,upset, and unmotivated everyday? This is not good for us in long
run. We should never be like this and we deserve more. Do you ever think of
happiness?
Happiness come from the old Norse term' luck'/chance We always
mistaken happiness as the self satisfaction of possessing 'everything' we
desire eg: luxury car,big house, busty girlfriend, or macho boyfriend etc. Not
only we only think of manipulating the world. PLEASE: the world is not own just
by us.
In my humble opinion, these are the causes of unhappiness:
1.) Unable to appreciate
good perspective around us
2.) Self- centered ( concern only with own interest )
3.) Inability to observe
ourselves properly
4.) Loneliness
5.) Dislike of our own
We can actually find
happiness through several methods:
1.) Be optimistic
-we must always
think that any events that happen must have its own purpose
either it is bad or good and learn the lessons
2.) Forgive and forget
- Don't let hatred breed and settle inside you. If you forgive you
will be able to forget. Forgiving may not be easy but it brings you tremendous
peace. Forgive for your sake, if not theirs.
3.)
Always be true to yourself
-Choose
your own way of life without being pressured by anyone else. As an example of
this, Barrack Obama was born to a Muslim father, but chose to be a Christian.
4.) Feed
your soul
-
Participate in religious and spiritual growth can handle stress better and more
you happier Eg: meditation
5.)
SMILE : ) : ) : ) : ) : )
-The act
of smiles release endorphin into your body, which increase your self of
well-being and overall happiness
MEDITATION


